Everyone wants to be wanted

Humans have their very own values, uniquely.
We constantly evaluate ourselves of our values to others, but the way we did it was wrong if its done in using comparison among individuals.
The right way is to compare within ourselves.
People seldom compare within because they dont know themselves well and conveniently compare outwardly with others.
And this is always the source of suffers.
If it were to say humans have dominating qualities like earth, water, air and fire (oopps... watch too much Angels and Demons), how can u compare water and fire? If u are comparing yourself with others, u are actually asking water to burn and fire to flow.

We are already desperately being wanted, since the day we were born and that's why we were born.